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What is Unconditional Love

Do you think you know what comprises the qualities and aspects of unconditional love? I am not referring to what you may think or believe what love is at a Conscious level. Does your Subconscious Mind have a program which will allow you to accept and demonstrate the behaviour which comprises unconditional love? In the thirty years I have been in practice I have met only five people who could demonstrate they knew what unconditional love is. The main cause of this is by the time we are born we have picked up all the fear, rejection and all the other negative programs that our mother is carrying in her mind. These are active programs which are assimilated into the fetus’s cellular memory in utero. The soul and spirit which enter the body to cause it become alive only know unconditional love, yet they have become blocked because our body is our mind as a result all the fear based programs which are locked into the cellular memory of our body during the nine month in utero period will overwrite the soul and spirits ability to stop these programs from activating at birth which causes rejection.

When a child is born they know what unconditional love is so they will demand they get unconditional love from their mother. If she does not know what it is they the child will act out crying and putting on tantrums to get the mothers attention. If she does not know why the child is acting out she may discipline the child or avoid them. This is interpreted by the child as rejection and abandonment. If the mother continues this action toward the child The child will feel mother is withholding love, acceptance and recognition. If this behaviour continues over a a year or more the child will ten begin to accept and believe the behaviour mothers is the way she is treating them is what love is.

If the baby knows that he/she is not the desired gender the parents want, it locks rejection in further. If the baby is not wanted due to any form of rejection by birth parents or from a mistake or any other conflict which the parents may be thinking, feeling or any attitude or behaviour which may cause a feeling of not being wanted it locks rejection in further. Religious beliefs that state we are born in sin further locks in these programs. As a result only 30% of the children have a chance at feeling loved at birth. This drops to less than 1% as they begin to grow up.

On the positive side, if the mother has supportive feelings about herself with the ability to demonstrate true love with support from her family and has a strong enough mind to make a commitment to herself that she will not bring a child into the world and raise them as her parents did, plus has support from the father in the same manner then the baby has a chance to be born in love in a supportive world.

This what my wife and I decided to accomplish. It took six years in relationship before we decided we could have children without causing a rejection reaction that we felt as children. Very few parents even think or plan their family. It just happens. When we felt we had our parents basic imprinting in control, we felt it was safe to have a child. This is an extremely important quality. It can only happen if the parents have a strong identity and belief in themselves. Very few people have this developed in their thirties or forties let alone their twenties when most people have children. We were in our thirties when our children were born so our identity of who we were had been firmly established.

We also decided to only have two and keep them five years apart so there would not be any conflicts. They grew up knowing they could trust us and know that we would be there for them and not react in negative ways. As a result they grew up in unconditional love. They have self esteem, self worth, and self confidence. They have never been sick or suffered from any illness at any time in their life. I addition to this they never missed a day of school.

We have to make these decisions before we have children so we don’t foul up their lives. We control their computer programming input until they are 10 years old so it is very important we do not invade their space with negative behaviour or forceful attitudes and actions cause them to be afraid of us. We have to develop trust and respect in them.

Very few people know what love is in any form. Some people may be able to act out what they think love is by definition. The conflict is not very clear to most people because they have never had a love model in their life. Love is a quality that comes from a basic feeling of being accepted, approved, validated and acknowledged for who you are as a child. To activate the values of unconditional love in your life you must have been born into a functional family that displayed and practiced unconditional love in their family lifestyle. If this was not learned in childhood or you have not worked through your childhood issues of rejection, abandonment, not being accepted, feeling not all right, self rejection, lack of value and many other feeling and emotions that are from dysfunctional families then this produce more dysfunctional behaviour. Without those qualities you will not have self esteem, self worth or self confidence. These are cluster qualities which means they can not exist separately they must all be functional in your life or they are not able to be demonstrated to children.

When we are from a dysfunctional family we may not know the causes because we are living in an illusion due to being buried in our Subconscious Minds data base in denial. We do not want to revisit those feelings so we have locked them out of our conscious awareness. They are still filed in our data base, but we can not find them. When I check a person with Kinesiology (muscle testing) using a persons arm as an indicator device to find out if they are willing to bring up all the negative feeling, attitudes and experiences from the past so we can release them I always get a no response. Why would we get this response if a person wants to clear the past so they can get on with their life? Because nobody wants to revisit the traumatic experiences of the past. They are locked up so why not keep them that way. Unfortunately they must be released, but we do not have go back and experience the struggle, suffering and trauma over again. We can lump it altogether and release them in a short time with the Energy Medicine process. But we have to access them to find base cause and core issues.

For the more than 80 years the movie industry and the media has misrepresented what love is. This has caused a serious breakdown in family life styles and social culture. We are not talking about romance or sex which is unfortunately played up in most of the media as love. What love means is very different from the popular media version.

What love is not: The thumping feeling that causes us to be attracted to someone. Being swept off your feet over a romance or Sexual attraction. Love is not an emotion it is a feeling. It must come from an internal source within us. It is something you grow into when you find a person who has similar attitudes, feeling and desires. Love has nothing to do with sex even though that is the way it played up in the media.

So what does this do to us when we see all the conflicts on the media about these people who are supposed to be our idols which leads to further conflicts? All you have to do is look at the number of young people who back out of life in suicide. The numbers had gone up 800% in the last 40 years. Many feel lost because they can’t find love and happiness. They never will with the media model. If their parents model was dysfunctional them where do you go to find the model to follow? Many people are attending seminars and workshops on personal growth and transformation to find a new path in life. If you are on the rocks already, marriage counseling very seldom works. Very few therapist are adept enough to locate the cause which caused you to make the choice. First you have to find out how you ended up making the improper choice before you can change the behaviour. If you do not find out why you are making improper choices you will do it again, again and again until change the behaviour.

Unconditional love is a form of acceptance without need to prove anything. Love is kindness and caring without any judgment or control. It is acceptance of others as they are without the need to change, control or to require any specific action. Love has no needs it only gives.

Dr. Martin believes you can have peace, happiness, harmony, joy, unconditional love and financial abundance; it is available to you at all times. You have the ability to change your life and create a new future simply by reprogramming your mind! Learn more at Dr. Martin’s website, TransformYourMind.com.

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You Have to Perform a Simple Love Test Before You Can Proceed in Getting Your Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend in a Making Up Relationship

You have to perform a simple love test before you can proceed in getting your ex boyfriend or girlfriend in a making up relationship

 

 

 

 

Love is the feeling of affection towards someone. In the love field, you simply do not choose who to love. You might choose who to live with for convenience but not who to grow fond of. A marriage for convenience needs a lot of patience and tolerance. To live happily the couple must device a way of dealing with things. In the love field, extremes are not encouraged. The opposite of love is hate. If you do not love your spouse, if he wrongs you he experiences a lot of hatred. This is a dangerous exercise since there is a possibility of harm. Love acts as a mediation factor in many disputes. Lack of it creates fights out of simple disagreements. Hard times in a relationship act as a great love test.

 

 

Why are people murdering their spouses all the time? It is mostly out of bitterness. There are people who venture into marriage not because they are in love but because they have some other interests. They hook up with some one because they are hoping to be associated with something great. A wealthy and powerful man is always a target for many women. What happens when after marriage the money is gone with the wind? When the power goes down the drain? The marriage is shattered. In such a case the calamities act as a good love test. The love field becomes full of revenge activities. The pretence comes to an end and the true colours are revealed. It is under such circumstances that suicide and murder usually occur.

 

 

People should know that money and power are things which were once attained and can also go down the toilet. Love conquers all the troubles. It acts like a bond that keeps many couples together. With money or no money, with power or no power a marriage that is genuine should stand firm. A love test will always be there and if you are keen to observe you will know whether your marriage relationship is purely based on love. In the love field of a malicious marriage, there are a lot of plotting games that go on. For example if you notice that your spouse withdraws fat amount of cash from an account and becomes rude when you ask for explanation, you should be cautious.

 

 

If you watch a love field of couples with an admirable marriage, they play the game with a lot of enthusiasm. There is no much effort in making things work out. Nature takes its course. They stand together and strong when they are undergoing a love test. Have you ever found yourself laughing when it is least expected? True love overshadows all the problems. When your partner is sick it is the perfect time to express all your love and concern to him/her. It should actually bring you together as a couple. Love is sweet when it is genuine so try your best not to force it. There is off course the unfairness of love where it is one sided. If the other party is unwilling, please relax and wait for your own true love.

 

Indeed, life is short. Don’t let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.

 

 

I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

 

 

 

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Some Experiences in My First True Love

Everyone remembers their first true love. Perhaps this is because you did everything special for the first time together. Your first true love would be the first person you ever kissed for the first time. They are probably the ones that made your heart beat loud and fast every time you saw them around and when they touched your hands, you went speechless. They could also be the only ones who made everything stand still. Your first true love could have got you into a lot of trouble. The first time I ever disobeyed my parents was when my first true love came into my life.

My first true love taught me the most memorable of all lessons. I call him my first true love because I truly loved him. You might have noticed that I used the past tense here; this is because I am no longer with my first true love. It is very sad that he left, but let’s not get into that now. First, let me tell you what my true love taught me. My first true love taught me to be patient, understanding and all the good values of life. In fact, when I look back at my life with my first true love, there was never a day that went by without him not teaching me a valuable lesson.

My first true love taught me almost everything and though he is no longer with me, I will always live to appreciate it. Before I met him, I was selfish and self centered. Everything had to be mine. When my first true love came into my life, he slowly started teaching me about love. He made sure that I understood that there were different kinds of love. He taught me that love is never jealous and above all, it is never selfish. Without realizing it, I was learning from him. I was still the bad person that I was and one day he was gone!

My first true love left me, yes he left me. Even though he left, I still call him my first true love. This is because I do believe with all my heart that he was my first true. They say that your true love never leaves, they do. Sometimes you have to let someone go before they realize that you were actually important? That is what my first true love did to me. I never thought he was that important. After he left, I realized that he really was important and I was really hurt. The funny part about all the lessons I learnt from my true love is that. I realized that he was actually teaching me after he left. Before that, I did not see the lessons he was trying to put across. I was just too thick at that time to get it. The people who have come into my life after my first true love have had better treatment from me than my first true love. I look back at our love and wonder why it had to end, but I am not sorry, I learnt a lot from it.

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The Greatest Bits of Endless Love Lyrics

Love songs have a way of capturing the heart and soul of our emotions to deliver great tunes that can only celebrate the reality of love. It is pretty exciting to go through the various love songs written and, it is through the collections that we are able to discover and judge some of the greatest love songs ever written. Endless love lyrics are some of the greatest words of love ever written and sang. The song was done by an all time singing sensation Diana Ross and the veteran king of smooth music Lionel Ritchie. The two came together to perform the best lyrics that describe great endless love. Their duet continues to captivate massive audiences all around the world. Endless love lyrics are some of the most sought after and, you can easily find them on the Internet. For all those who are in love, these are the lyrics that have been observed to bring down the roofs of buildings as lovers declare their undying affection; the following are endless love lyrics.

‘My love, there is only you in my life, the only thing that is bright’. This is an opening that you can just sing to your partner and, the rest will unfold. It manages to touch the depths of hearts and bring out deep emotion which can best be described by endless love lyrics. The song continues like this. ‘My first love, you are every breath that I take, you are every step I make’. This becomes a very special song for first loves. You know what they say about first loves; they are always something irreplaceable. These are lyrics that will just make you reflect to your first love and look at the far you have come. Music is supposed to do this and touching our souls is already a huge success for the endless love lyrics. The lyrics go on as follows. ‘I want to share all my love with you, no one else will do’.

If you are ready for commitment, this is the song for you. It has been used by many just to confirm a life long union that will create something beautiful; that can only last forever. When you are watching the duet, the harmony of voices will even make your experience more miraculous and you are convicted that this is the place to be and, it is the place of love and affection. The lyrics are nothing short of artistic and inspiring. It is pretty wonderful to make this song a signature song to remind you of your commitment and love to your partner. Other lyrics to this song are ‘you eyes tell me how much you care, oh yes you will always be my endless love’. If you are a little short on love lines, try some of these lyrics and you are guaranteed to win them over. The song ends with a thundery and still tone ‘my love my, love, you will always be my endless love’. In life, there is nothing more important than to find that endless love. Let the song inspire you to love.

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Leona Lewis Bleeding Love Lyrics

To every story, there are always two sides. When it comes to love, this is no different. Love can be a jewel to cherish and it can also be the source of great hurt. Love songs try to strike a balance when telling stories of love. Sometimes, the best stories of love told are those about strife and triumph. The songstress Leona Lewis has outdone herself again with her hit song bleeding love. Bleeding love lyrics will explore the world of the kind of love that I have talked about above. Sometimes, love is a battle ground and more often than not we find you bleeding in love. The following are the beautiful bleeding love lyrics. ‘Closed off from love, I didn’t need the pain, once or twice was enough and, it was all in vein, time starts to pass and before you know it we are frozen’. This is usually the state of many hearts when they are entering into relationships.

It is not always easy starting with something you are not sure of the outcome. Therefore we are closed to love. This is a vital lesson for people who are in the dating process. You need to start the process when you are fully prepared. This means that your broken heart from the past needs to be dealt with. It is only through a clean slate that we can start to build something that will last. Bleeding love lyrics continue as follows. ‘But something happened for the very first time with you, my heart melted to the ground, found something true, and everyone’s looking around, thinking I’m going crazy.’ It will happen that you will find something you think is real and you will be convicted that this is it. The bleeding for love lyrics will definitely speak to your soul as you strive to establish your love connection. This is an opportunity to learn and reflect on all the things you will do for love.

The song continues like this ‘but I do not care what they say I’m in love with you, they try to pull me away but they do not know the truth. My heart is crippled by the vein that I keep on closing’. The words will definitely pierce into your heart as you seek unravel the situation of love in your own life. The chorus makes the most impression and it depicts a bloody affair in this regard. It goes as follows ‘You cut me open and I keep bleeding love, I keep bleeding love.’ This phrase is repeated several times and finally repeats ‘you cut me open’. It is a very interesting choice of words and, this is a song worth your attention. The musical and sounds to the song are simply out of this world as every emotion depicted to its entirety. It is definitely one of the greatest love songs of all times. The song has very many verses and the last one goes like this ‘And it is draining all of me, oh they find it hard to believe, I will be wearing these scares for everyone to see’. There is nothing else to add to this, you need to get the lyrics to bleeding love.

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School is in Session and the Lesson is Love

As a planet, as a people, we are moving to the next level in our evolution and this has been an intense, challenging and, often, uncomfortable time of preparation for what lies ahead.

On my way through a journey that felt at times like I was going to the depths of hell and back, I have come out the other side with a deep and profound epiphany â?? I am absolutely certain that this entire journey in this lifetime on earth is all about love.

Weâ??ve probably all heard the phrase that we are spiritual beings having a human experience.

With that idea in mind, we may also have heard the idea that we have volunteered and been chosen to experience this great classroom of Life for the great transformation that is taking place. And, ultimately there is only one lesson to learn: Love.

Itâ??s ALL about Love.

Maybe this isnâ??t a particularly earth-shattering or enlightening idea for many of you. For me, somehow, the message has come through more strongly than ever before and I feel that I might finally be getting it at last.

Imagine for just a moment that you are sitting in the planning session meeting before you came to Earth. Surrounded by loving beings, you begin to map out what you choose to experience and how you choose to learn. Your guides and elders, along with other spiritual beings, are there with you to plan your curriculum as certain souls volunteer to participate in helping you advance in your personal evolution on this journey around the sun.

Danny may volunteer to play the part of your wicked stepmother. Ginger may volunteer to be your best friend. Marco steps up to be your boss at work. Heather agrees to be your lover.

You get the idea. Everyone you meet has volunteered to play a part in the great drama you have created for this lifetime experience.

Now, in truth this is not an original idea of mine and thereâ??s plenty of documentation out there to support it. For more information on life between lives, check out Dr. Michael Newtonâ??s book Journey of Souls.

But letâ??s carry it further. In this school of Life, some of us are in nursery school, some are in elementary, some in high school, some are in college, and some are here to get their Ph.D.

Weâ??re all learning our lessons in our own way. Every one you meet is a teacher.

When you operate from this understanding, it is impossible to hate or be angry or even be upset with someone who is simply doing what they came here to do â?? learn to love.

More than that, you can allow yourself to be really grateful for anyone who gives you an opportunity to move forward in your lessons. So, the person who hits your â??hot buttonsâ? â?? you know, the things that trigger fear, rage, outrage, low self-esteem, a lack of self-worth â?? has actually taken time out of their curriculum to help you advance in yours. They have generously volunteered to step aside from their own rigorous course of study to benefit you.

They have given you a profound and priceless gift â?? an opportunity to become a master on this journey and to move closer to graduation. As you excavate and grow beyond your core issues, you are set free to experience new lessons.

So, as circumstances and experiences have come up, I found myself asking each person in my mindâ??s eye: â??Have you learned how to love?â?

And, then, of course I turned the question to myself: â??Have you learned how to love?â?

Each and every time Iâ??ve done this, Iâ??ve gotten a huge epiphany of understanding and felt refreshed with a new sense of joy and appreciation.

I have felt full of Love.

And in this intense joy of appreciation, seeing the perfection of Life with new eyes, there has been a certain freedom. The pain, the hurt, the anger, the fear, the feelings of rejection and disappointment simply disappear.

So, as you set yourself free from the illusions of the past, the drama that has kept you entertained and yet often distracted, the stories that youâ??ve been telling and then creating and recreating time and time again, you can have the incredible sense of being free to truly embrace and live the life youâ??ve always desired – full of all the really great, abundant, and prosperous joy that makes life so juicy and rich.

And you can give yourself permission to release and let go of any judgment, fear, worry, anger or regret, surrendering all that does not serve or support you. Itâ??s all been perfect and it is perfect. Youâ??re on the right train and itâ??s moving away from the station on to a new destination.

With this new way of seeing, this new perspective, we can truly embrace and love our life as it is. From a practical level as a conscious creator, this makes great sense. When we determine and focus on what is wrong with our life and the people around us, or even the ideas of not enough or not good enough, we are magnets attracting more of those experiences into our reality. When we are filled with appreciation, love and expressing gratitude, we are open and receptive for even more in great measure.

Now, Iâ??ll be honest here and let you know that I have not yet mastered this lesson of Love, but Iâ??m on my way. There are times when Iâ??ve been drawn back sharply, as if Iâ??m in a remedial class or going through a final exam, to make sure Iâ??ve gotten it.

Before I get any irate emails or outraged phone calls, I ask you to keep an open mind and begin to hold this idea in your daily vision. As you go out in the world see, feel, know, expect and embrace that everyone in your life has come bearing a precious gift â?? the opportunity for you to learn how to love.

Maybe the lesson today is to learn to love yourself. Maybe itâ??s to learn to love the challenges we face as spiritual beings in a physical body. Maybe itâ??s to learn to have compassion for one of your fellow students and reach out to them in love. Maybe itâ??s to learn to be detached and no longer engage in self-defeating behaviors as you give your fellow students the space and the grace to learn the lesson theyâ??re working on in the moment.

There is always an opportunity to make a choice in how we respond.

And when we choose Love we choose Life and a joyful, prosperous, abundant journey.

So, my question to you today is: Have you learned how to love?

If not, perhaps your silent daily walking prayer can become â??Help me remember how to Loveâ?.

Love the magnificence of you â?? your special talents, gifts, and abilities. Love your body â?? your physical presence. Love your home. Love your car. Love your work. Love the people around you. Love the clouds in the sky. Love the opportunities to grow. Love every single aspect of your life.

As you do, your vibration, your experiences, and your world will change to one of excitement and delightment, filled with magic and miracles every day!

YOU deserve it!

An inspiring speaker and author, Transformation Expert Debbie Friedman’s revolutionary programs include Cleaning Out the Closet of Your Mind and Manifesting Made Easy. She balances her international speaking and training seminars with a private practice in Southern California. Visit www.CleaningOutTheCloset.com/freedom to get a free Gaining Freedom From Fear audio program.

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Map of Food Crisis Equals Map of Love Crisis

Map of food crisis is based upon â??Oilâ? supply and equals to buying power. It is not universal and not sustainable since the sources are ending. It is a mind concept that applies to billions of humanâ??s world wide. The equivalent is conditioned love and all conditions come at a price

Conditioned love is, what we â??knowâ? or have been told to do to gain some results from our opposite.

Conditioned love is, what we guess the other person needs and serve according to our guess work.

Conditioned love is, if our spouse tells us exactly how things have to be or else â??no more loving touchâ?.

Conditioned love is, when love is only possible between certain groups of people.

Conditioned love is, if we dissect between age, race and religion

Conditioned love is, if we put it into categories of what ever color and shape we consider worth our love.

Conditioned love is, if we have to earn it or to depend on it to survive.

Words can not make up for action â?? the child being told I love you every time it cries will die after some time due to mal nutrition.. To mention the food crisis does not feed the starving. Here we got trapped in the trickiest way we can imagine.

Living the conditioned way leaves plenty room for those manipulating us into their map â??of food/love crisisâ?.

One very fine tuned example is â??love your neighbor as you love thyselfâ?. If we look at the circumstances all around the world â?? it seems our â??neighborâ??s loveâ? for us is not really doing well for all of us. Matter of fact though is, that we can not â??love our neighbor if we donâ??t know what love means and what true love and care feels likeâ?. We are thought â??conditioned loveâ? by this statement and the results are quite visible today.

What ifâ?¦.If you had only one kilo flower left and 4 hungry people waiting for bread â?? would you share it with 4 more starving strangers knocking on your door?

If you would reject the 4 more hungry humans â?? what would you gain if there was no more supply?

If you would share your food equally â?? what would be the different?

For many a though thought â?? I hope you consider love when making up your mind to answer the above for yourself. Remember, you could be one of the 4 strangers knocking on the door, what would you like to be greeted with?

Without â??love crisisâ? we would not be able to have the â??food crisisâ? on the map. Do we want to experience the results or are we able to change it in our own small surrounding to start with? Love does not know age â?? love simply is age less, time less and without conditions

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Is There a Real Love?

Yes, there is. If something does not last forever cannot be called love. Love is when tow people are like one. When two people unite their personalities. To fall in love is a different feeling. It is something that is more blazing as a feeling than love, as a rule.

How does a relationship between a woman and a man begin? First date. You are excited, thrilled, your heart is beating, you can’t think clear. Second date. Third….tenth…. your heart is not beating that way anymore but you continue with this relationship. Second stage – first touch of hands. It is electrifying. And again your heart is beating and you are excited. Weeks after that you get used to the touch and it is not excited anymore. Next stage – first hug. Then first kiss. But you always get used to them and it is not the same. For two-three months you will discover new feelings and new experience and you think it is going to last forever. But that is not true. Why? Because then they have nowhere to go. And here it comes the disappointment. You start thinking that your love has gone. It hasn’t. It was just not there before. Love is not gone. Your falling in love is gone. Love is a state of two people. Falling in love is a feeling, a strong feeling but not real. When you are in love, you are full of feelings and very excited. When you love, you will be not that excited but your love will stay.

The problem with love is also not to choose the subject of love but to have the ability to love. If you are able to love, the only thing you can pray for is to meet a person who is able to love too. We all need love. We all think many times that our feeling is love. But it is not always true. If our relationship gives us pain, pay attention. Maybe this relationship is ill. And we may call it not love but dependence. However this dependence makes us feel unhappy. There is not real trust and intimacy in such relationships. You absolutely depend on your partner’s interests and give up your own goals and desires.

In order to establish an emotional connection with somebody else you must have emotional freedom. Real love is not possessive and selfish. When you really love somebody you do not take advantages and you don’t accept your partner as your own property. On the contrary, you respect and admire your partner. You do not feel disturbed. The real love cries: “Yes, I can live without you but I love you and I want to live with you”. To be able to love means to be able to give. Not to make a deal with somebody. The real love is responsible. The real love accepts the partner the way he/she is. The real love has confidence. The real love helps and cares. Generally, the real love can exist only between mature and independent people.

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Love Coupons Say “i Love You!”

A love coupon is a romantic way to say “I love you”. It is a form of voluntary promissory note between people in love that contains a promise from one of the partners in a relationship to engage in a romantic activity at a time in the future.

Love Coupons contain relevant artistic images or drawings, a romantic promise and sometimes redeeming conditions like expiration date. At the core a love coupon is a love note that uses the coupon metaphor but it can also be seen as a very specialized form of greeting card.

The promise made through the love coupon can range from romantic fantasies to taking care of domestic chores. Samples of romantic promises may include an evening of dancing, night of kisses and cuddles, evening of romance, romantic weekend getaway, boat ride for two, stroll on the beach or a romantic day trip, just to name a few.

Love in about intense living and Love Coupons simply tell the magic words: “I Love You!” Show your partner all your love, attention and appreciation by creating your FREE personalized Love Coupons now!

The quality of the paper really matters! Use good quality paper, print your coupons and then you have an number of options:

Put the coupons page(s) in a special envelope and send it to your lover Cut the coupons and make a small Love Coupons Booklet for your lover Keep them and hand them one by one at special occasions during Valentine’s Day or other special days when you want to say “I Love You!” Send the electronic version by email. Your lover will be able to print them and come to you to redeem them!

If you really want to impress your loved one, listen together to your favourite love song, create ultimate love coupons, print valentine coloring pages, enjoy love poems, personalize and print valentine cards, personalize and print flower cards. Let your loved one know you really love him or her.

 

Mary is freelanced content developer. One of her recent sites is http://ValentineLoveCard.com

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Valentines Day Poem: How You Made Me Love You

I have never loved anyone the way I love you. You complete me; your smile rescues me from bad days I have encountered. Everyday I’m with you feels like the first time we became as one. Never will there be any other; you are my sweet, sweet lover. You are delicate like a white rose, beautiful like the autumn sky.

Your touch, your kiss, your skin and just being you is what makes me love you. This is how you made me love you, beautiful you are. You are always there for me I cherish the love we have. No one loves me the way you do, you have made my dreams come true. This is how you made me love you. When you are gone, something goes wrong. My heart aches just for your smile, the rhythm is off beat. My heart is weak because you are not near. You give me life, you are the reason I breathe, and your smile gives me the energy to get through the day. When I’m down you are always around, you give me good love. This is how you made me love you; this is how you made me care for you. This is how you made me love you.

You see things in me I never thought I see; you encourage me to do right. Every night you lay next to me feels so heavenly. You bring out the best in me. I’m blessed because God has made you for me, together we stand strong. Stronger than any love that I’ve ever known, I have grown into a believer of faith. We are soul mates.

Your touch, your kiss, your skin and just being you is what makes me love you. This is how you made me love you, beautiful you are. You are always there for me I cherish the love we have. No one loves me the way you do, you have made my dreams come true. This is how you made me love you. When you are gone, something goes wrong. My heart aches just for your smile, the rhythm is off beat. My heart is weak because you are not near. You give me life, you are the reason I breathe, and your smile gives me the energy to get through the day. When I’m down you are always around, you give me good love. This is how you made me love you; this is how you made me care for you. This is how you made me love you.

Love is what I feel, Love is what I see, and love is what I smell so sweet, so irresistible and yet so kissable. This is how you made me love you. This is why I would give my life for you.

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I’m a wife and mom of three beautiful children. I live in ILLinois USA. I have been an online marketer for two years and have been writing articles for a year. My main subjects are business and health.

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